So we have a dog. Her name is Hanako. She is rehomed to us from her breeder who believed she would do better in a home with a family environment, where she can receive the love and attention she deserves. We love her to pieces. She's the prettiest, most loveliest dog ever. (Except for my previous dogs who now posses little dog wings). She's goofy, athletic and super cute. She's the perfect catch!! The problem?
She hates going outside. She has a fear of the outside. Traffic, cars, loud mufflers, strange dogs, strange smells... the city. She came from the country side, so she has some adjusting to do, but it's been two months, and I'm starting to get worried. Yes, it hasn't been that long, and she may be one of those dogs that take a while to adjust... but still. When I think about what we have had to do so far to accommodate for her fear of the outside, but need for potty, it is exhausting.
When we first got her, she was relatively okay to walk around the neighbourhood with me. Then as time progressed, and she got to know us, and started to recognize that our home was a safe place for her, she decided she hated going outside.
Let me illustrate the best I can with words:
1. Get ready (this involves, booties, harness, and our jackets. Note: She is by no means uncomfortable with her harness or boots. On the contrary, sometimes she will go into them nicely, and she gets excited to go out when we put on our jackets.)
2. Open door
3.
(a) Hesitates by the door, and won't budge. Starts to lean away from the door. (Think, the Leaning Tower of Pisa)
(b) Walks out on her own with no complaint. (Usually means she's gotta go potty bad)
4. If
3.(a) then most likely she will forget that she needs to potty and will want to go back in. This is displayed by constant pulling, walking backwards trying to get out of the harness, and some freaking out. She is also a little more "wild" in this state and nothing familiar will register to her. Cheese (her ultimate favorite food in the world) me (her current and only bff) or her yorkie friend (only dog bff) are all foreign and unknown to her. Standing still and letting her work out her issues on her own, and waiting for her to calm the fuck down is no use. Note: I am not emotional anymore. I will just let her freak out a bit, but she will never settle, so I just walk her back home.
4. (a) When this happens, we will go back inside. But a few minutes later after we've settled inside, she will start to whine and whine, wanting to go out. Then,
"The Cycle" begins. Repeat 1 - 4 about 7 or more times.
5. If
3.(b) then she is most likely able to potty, unless something freaks her out (loud muffler, a car that drove by too close, scary looking large person walking by, etc). Sometimes on a good day, we are able to walk a portion of our "route" (which I can hardly call a route any more since she hates going outside so much now) but usually something will freak her out mid-way and we will have to turn back towards home.
4.(a) happens a lot, and this is what is exhausting. Sometimes she whines so much, wanting to go out, and nothing happens. I can only assume, she just wants to go out for a walk, because she's got a lot of energy to burn, and I know she loves being outside (in general) but hates going outside here, where we live.
Anyway. I'm hoping that it's just the "winter" phase of our relationship, and that spring will come soon...
PHOTO SPAM!!
Yeah. She's the sweetest thing ever.